{"id":1044,"date":"2019-05-10T22:10:24","date_gmt":"2019-05-10T19:10:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/3gozdergisi.com\/?p=1044"},"modified":"2021-04-27T00:15:01","modified_gmt":"2021-04-26T21:15:01","slug":"1044","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/3gozdergisi.com\/?p=1044","title":{"rendered":"Se\u00e7ti\u011fimiz kadar \u00f6zg\u00fcr, \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz kadar insan\u0131z!"},"content":{"rendered":"

<\/b> Sabah g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z andan itibaren onlarca se\u00e7im yapar\u0131z g\u00fcn i\u00e7inde, baz\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 bilin\u00e7li, baz\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 refleks olarak, baz\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 ise bilin\u00e7li san\u0131p gerisinde onlarca farkl\u0131 neden ve ihtiya\u00e7 ile. G\u00fcn biter iyi k\u00f6t\u00fc bir s\u00fcr\u00fc duygudan ge\u00e7mi\u015fizdir, baz\u0131s\u0131 \u00e7ok h\u0131zl\u0131 baz\u0131s\u0131nda daha fazla tak\u0131larak ve yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z t\u00fcm se\u00e7imlerin i\u00e7 i\u00e7e ge\u00e7ti\u011fini ve her birinin bir ba\u015fka se\u00e7im i\u00e7in neden do\u011furdu\u011funu bilmeden.<\/span><\/p>\n

M\u00fcge \u00c7evik<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

***<\/b><\/p>\n

Se\u00e7ti\u011fimiz kadar \u00f6zg\u00fcr, \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz kadar insan\u0131z!<\/p>\n

\u0130li\u015fkiler yuma\u011f\u0131d\u0131r hayat dedi\u011fimiz, se\u00e7tiklerimiz ile se\u00e7meden ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131za gelenler kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda vermeyi se\u00e7ti\u011fimiz tepkinin birbirine etkisi. \u00c7ok karma\u015f\u0131k ve soyut oldu, hakl\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Biraz daha hayata indirelim ve daha basit anlatal\u0131m.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0130li\u015fkisi Var kitab\u0131n\u0131 yazarken, Mutluluk Kul\u00fcb\u00fc’nde anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131m mutluluk yolculu\u011fu nas\u0131l yap\u0131lacak bundan bahsetmek istemi\u015ftim. Ve uzun uzun do\u011fdu\u011fumuz andan itibaren ili\u015fki i\u00e7ine girdi\u011fimiz her \u015feyi ve se\u00e7imleri yazd\u0131m. Bedenle ba\u015flayan yolculu\u011fumuzda, duygu, zihin, anne, baba, sevgili, i\u015f, para, do\u011fa, tanr\u0131 derken her biri ile ili\u015fki kurar\u0131z ve bu ili\u015fkiler i\u00e7inde verdi\u011fimiz kararlar ve yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z se\u00e7imlerdir bizi biz yapan.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0130nsan, hayat denen b\u00fcy\u00fcme yolculu\u011funda “ben olmayan” her ne varsa duygu geli\u015ftirebilece\u011fi, i\u015fte ona mecburdur geli\u015fmek i\u00e7in, d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fmek i\u00e7in. Sadece insan insan ile ili\u015fki kurar san\u0131r\u0131z, oysa \u00fczerinde karar verdi\u011fi her \u015fey ile ili\u015fki kurar \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc sadece davran\u0131\u015f ile de\u011fil d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce ile bile bir etki yarat\u0131r insan ve bunlar\u0131n t\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fcn sonu\u00e7lar\u0131 vard\u0131r. Memnun olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u015finde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya devam eder, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc ayr\u0131lacak kadar g\u00fcvende hissetmiyordur ama g\u00fcvenlik ihtiyac\u0131 ile bunu se\u00e7ti\u011fini bilmeden \u015fik\u00e2yete devam eder.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bir kilo al\u0131r bir verir, bunun dip nedenlerini bulup k\u00f6kten \u00e7\u00f6zmek yerine diyetler ve \u00f6zel men\u00fcler ile bo\u011fu\u015fur durur. Evlili\u011finde mutsuzdur ama \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 bahane eder ve kal\u0131r \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ki\u015filer. \u00c7ocuklar \u00f6nemli bir fakt\u00f6rd\u00fcr do\u011fru ama \u00f6nemli olan ki\u015finin ebeveyn kimli\u011finin ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 ben kimli\u011finin ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcne koymu\u015f olmas\u0131d\u0131r. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Sadece insan insan ile ili\u015fki kurar san\u0131r\u0131z, oysa \u00fczerinde karar verdi\u011fi her \u015fey ile ili\u015fki kurar \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc sadece davran\u0131\u015f ile de\u011fil d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce ile bile bir etki yarat\u0131r insan ve bunlar\u0131n t\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fcn sonu\u00e7lar\u0131 vard\u0131r. Memnun olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u015finde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya devam eder, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc ayr\u0131lacak kadar g\u00fcvende hissetmiyordur ama g\u00fcvenlik ihtiyac\u0131 ile bunu se\u00e7ti\u011fini bilmeden \u015fik\u00e2yete devam eder.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

En basit hali ile diyorum ki, ki\u015fi onlarca se\u00e7im yapar b\u00fcy\u00fck k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck. Ve bunlar\u0131n hepsinin ama hepsinin gerisinde ki\u015finin ihtiyac\u0131 yatar. \u0130htiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 fark etmi\u015f ki\u015fi ya buna uygun davran\u0131r ya da davran\u0131\u015f\u0131ndan \u015fik\u00e2yet etmeyi b\u0131rak\u0131r. \u00a0Se\u00e7im yapman\u0131n en can ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 nokta da buras\u0131d\u0131r. Se\u00e7im i\u015finin mutlulu\u011funa a\u00e7\u0131lan bir kap\u0131d\u0131r. Ancak, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman o kap\u0131dan ge\u00e7mez ve i\u00e7inde bulundu\u011fumuz durumlar ile ilgili \u015fik\u00e2yet etmeyi, s\u00f6ylenmeyi veya mazeret \u00fcretmeyi tercih ederiz. Bunu da pek tabii ki bilmeden yapar\u0131z.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bilmeden! Evet kilit nokta buras\u0131. \u0130lk g\u00fcnden beri iddia ediyorum ki mutluluk \u00f6\u011frenilebilir. Bunun i\u00e7in de ilk ad\u0131m fark etmektedir. Ve ki\u015finin fark edece\u011fi ilk \u015fey de neyi neden yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131d\u0131r. Hangi davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 neden yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 veya yapamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fcr\u00fcst\u00e7e bulmak ya onu de\u011fi\u015ftirme ya da de\u011fi\u015ftirmeyi se\u00e7miyorsa \u015fik\u00e2yeti b\u0131rak\u0131p bunun bir karar oldu\u011funu idrak etme f\u0131rsat\u0131 verir ki\u015fiye.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bu i\u015fte \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya mecburum, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc pek \u00e7ok borcum var ve ekonomi k\u00f6t\u00fc, mecburen katlan\u0131yorum bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 ile bu i\u015fte \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 tercih ediyorum, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bor\u00e7lar\u0131m var ve i\u015fsiz kalmay\u0131 ve onun bedellerini \u00f6demeyi \u015fu an tercih etmiyorum bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n duygular\u0131 siz de takdir edersiniz ki bamba\u015fkad\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ancak, bu bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 kazanman\u0131n ilk ve en \u00f6nemli \u015fart\u0131 da yeti\u015fkin olmakt\u0131r. Ya\u015f ile veya n\u00fcfus k\u00e2\u011f\u0131d\u0131n\u0131n eskimesi ile maalesef yeti\u015fkin olunmuyor. Yap\u0131lan se\u00e7imlerin \u015fuurlu olmas\u0131 ve sonu\u00e7lar\u0131n tamam\u0131n\u0131n sorumlulu\u011funu almak ile yeti\u015fkin olunuyor. Bu da \u00f6zellikle bizim gibi \u00fclkelerde biraz zor. Nerede bir \u015fik\u00e2yet ve atalet bir arada ise, nerede bir memnuniyetsizlik ve bir o kadar da eylemsizlik varsa orada yeti\u015fkin tutumdan s\u00f6z etmek maalesef m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fil. Daha \u00e7ok \u00e7ocuklar ve hatta biraz da ergenler b\u00f6yle davran\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bu y\u00fczden se\u00e7im yapabilmek sundu\u011fu \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck \u00fczerinden mutlulu\u011fa a\u00e7\u0131lan ilk kap\u0131d\u0131r. Tabi bu kap\u0131n\u0131n her zaman g\u00fcl bah\u00e7elerine a\u00e7\u0131laca\u011f\u0131n\u0131n garantisi yoktur. \u00c7o\u011fu zaman ki\u015fi kararlar\u0131n\u0131n sorumlulu\u011funu da als\u0131n diye, ilk kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 dikenler olacakt\u0131r. Zaten \u015fik\u00e2yet etmesine ra\u011fmen ad\u0131m atmas\u0131n\u0131 engelleyen \u015fey de bu dikenler de\u011fil midir?<\/span><\/p>\n

Mutluluk \u00f6\u011frenilebilir dedi\u011fimde, \u00a0y\u00f6netilen hemen hemen t\u00fcm sorular ama ile ba\u015flar. \u2018\u015e\u00f6yle olsa b\u00f6yle olurdu\u2019 ya da \u2018iyi diyorsunuz da ama bazen de \u015f\u00f6yle oluyor\u2019 vs vs gibi… Benim de yan\u0131t\u0131m her zaman ayn\u0131d\u0131r. Ben size \u00f6\u011frenilebilir dedim, \u00e7ok kolay demedim. Ya da bedeli yok demedim. Kald\u0131 ki, hayatta her \u015feyin ama her \u015feyin bir bedeli varken, mutluluk gibi bir mertebenin bedelinin olmamas\u0131n\u0131 beklemek fazla naif de\u011fil mi?<\/span><\/p>\n

Bedeller genellikle se\u00e7meyerek vazge\u00e7tiklerimiz \u00fczerinden gelir. \u00d6rne\u011fin bo\u015fanmay\u0131 tercih etmi\u015f biri, bedelini yola \u00e7\u0131karken verdi\u011fi s\u00f6z ile \u00e7eli\u015ferek \u00f6der, o g\u00fcn ve orada verdi\u011fi s\u00f6z\u00fcn bug\u00fcn ve bu ko\u015fullarda hala i\u015flevsel olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kabul etmek zordur. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan yap\u0131s\u0131 gere\u011fi tutarl\u0131 olmak ihtiyac\u0131ndad\u0131r. Bir di\u011fer bedel \u00e7evrenin korkutmalar\u0131 ve evlili\u011fin \u00f6nemi \u00fczerine s\u00f6ylemlerine kar\u015f\u0131 gelmektir. Bir di\u011fer bedel yukar\u0131da da bahsetti\u011fim ebeveyn kimli\u011finin \u00e7ocuklara iyi bir yuva verme ihtiyac\u0131 ile ben kimli\u011finin \u00f6zg\u00fcrle\u015fme ve samimi olma ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmas\u0131ndan do\u011fan s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 olabilir.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00d6z\u00fcne uygun bir i\u015f yapmak i\u00e7in herkesin konforlu ve g\u00fcvenli g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc maa\u015fl\u0131 i\u015fini terk etmek isteyen ki\u015finin \u00f6deyece\u011fi bedel de yine benzer olacakt\u0131r. \u00d6zdeki ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131 fark ettikten sonra, o zaman dek kendisine \u00f6\u011fretilen ya da giydirilen pek \u00e7ok d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce kal\u0131b\u0131ndan ar\u0131nmas\u0131 ve sonra ad\u0131m atabilmesi gerekecektir. \u00dcstelik ad\u0131m att\u0131\u011f\u0131 andan itibaren pek \u00e7ok zorluk ile kar\u015f\u0131la\u015facak ve se\u00e7imlerini g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irdi\u011fi anlar olabilecektir. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc karar vermek, se\u00e7im yapmak, mutlaka ama mutlaka bir \u015feylerden vazge\u00e7mektir. Ve bu, pek \u00e7o\u011fumuzun hi\u00e7 i\u015fine gelmez. Bu nedenle de \u015fikayet etmeyi, ataleti, mevcudu, eldekini, ama, lakin ve fakatlar\u0131, “ra\u011fmen”lere, “hay\u0131r”lara, yeniye, sorumluluk almaya ve bazen sevdiklerimizi kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za almaya tercih ederiz. Bunu s\u0131kl\u0131kla yapar\u0131z, ancak b\u00f6yle yaparak mutlu olabileni hen\u00fcz g\u00f6rmedim.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bu nedenle, alt\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ize \u00e7ize yazmak isterim ki mutluluk \u00f6\u011frenilebilir ve her yeti\u015fkin bir noktada bunu \u00f6\u011frenmek ile m\u00fckelleftir, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc ya\u015fam nas\u0131l ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z kadar neleri se\u00e7ti\u011fimiz, se\u00e7imlerimizin arkas\u0131nda nas\u0131l durabildi\u011fimiz ve neleri g\u00f6ze alabildi\u011fimizin toplam\u0131d\u0131r. <\/span><\/p>\n

Dilerim se\u00e7tikleriniz, ihtiya\u00e7 ve de\u011ferlerinize en uygun olanlar ve bedelleri sand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zdan hafif olsun.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0130ddia ediyorum ki mutluluk \u00f6\u011frenilebilir. Bunun i\u00e7in de ilk ad\u0131m fark etmektedir. Ve ki\u015finin fark edece\u011fi ilk \u015fey de neyi neden yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131d\u0131r. Hangi davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 neden yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 veya yapamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fcr\u00fcst\u00e7e bulmak ya onu de\u011fi\u015ftirme ya da de\u011fi\u015ftirmeyi se\u00e7miyorsa \u015fik\u00e2yeti b\u0131rak\u0131p bunun bir karar oldu\u011funu idrak etme f\u0131rsat\u0131 verir ki\u015fiye.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Mutluluk \u00f6\u011frenilebilir ve her yeti\u015fkin bir noktada bunu \u00f6\u011frenmek ile m\u00fckelleftir, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc ya\u015fam nas\u0131l ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z kadar neleri se\u00e7ti\u011fimiz, se\u00e7imlerimizin arkas\u0131nda nas\u0131l durabildi\u011fimiz ve neleri g\u00f6ze alabildi\u011fimizin toplam\u0131d\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Ko\u015fullar\u0131m\u0131z ne olursa olsun, gidece\u011fimiz y\u00f6n\u00fc se\u00e7me g\u00fcc\u00fcne sahibiz. G\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatlar\u0131m\u0131z \u00f6zg\u00fcr iradeyle yap\u0131lm\u0131\u015f bir dizi se\u00e7im ve uygulamalardan olu\u015fur. 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Ko\u015fullar\u0131m\u0131z ne olursa olsun, gidece\u011fimiz y\u00f6n\u00fc se\u00e7me g\u00fcc\u00fcne sahibiz. G\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatlar\u0131m\u0131z \u00f6zg\u00fcr iradeyle yap\u0131lm\u0131\u015f bir dizi se\u00e7im ve uygulamalardan olu\u015fur. Ko\u015fullar\u0131m\u0131za ba\u011fl\u0131 olarak \u00e7ok ya da az se\u00e7imler ya\u015fayabiliriz.\u2026","rel":"","context":""Genel" i\u00e7inde","block_context":{"text":"Genel","link":"https:\/\/3gozdergisi.com\/?cat=1"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/3gozdergisi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/se%C3%A7im-yasas%C4%B1.jpg?fit=1000%2C500&ssl=1&resize=350%2C200","width":350,"height":200,"srcset":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/3gozdergisi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/se%C3%A7im-yasas%C4%B1.jpg?fit=1000%2C500&ssl=1&resize=350%2C200 1x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/3gozdergisi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/se%C3%A7im-yasas%C4%B1.jpg?fit=1000%2C500&ssl=1&resize=525%2C300 1.5x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/3gozdergisi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/se%C3%A7im-yasas%C4%B1.jpg?fit=1000%2C500&ssl=1&resize=700%2C400 2x"},"classes":[]},{"id":783,"url":"https:\/\/3gozdergisi.com\/?p=783","url_meta":{"origin":1044,"position":4},"title":"Say\u0131: 14 Merhamet","author":"dergi","date":"16 May\u0131s 2018","format":false,"excerpt":"Yeni say\u0131m\u0131zda, hat\u0131rlanmas\u0131 toplum, hatta insanl\u0131k i\u00e7in elzem olan bir erdemi se\u00e7tik: MERHAMET. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bizler 3. G\u00d6Z Dergisi olarak y\u0131k\u0131ma, umutsuzlu\u011fa, sevgisizli\u011fe kar\u015f\u0131; ya\u015fam\u0131n ger\u00e7ek i\u00e7sel bilgisinden, de\u011ferlerinden, erdemlerinden s\u00f6z etmeyi se\u00e7iyoruz. D\u00fcnyam\u0131z\u0131n merhamete ihtiyac\u0131 var; hayvanlar\u0131n, a\u011fa\u00e7lar\u0131n, suyun, yerin-g\u00f6\u011f\u00fcn, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck-b\u00fcy\u00fck t\u00fcm insanlar\u0131n merhamete ihtiyac\u0131 var. 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