{"id":1469,"date":"2019-12-20T17:05:28","date_gmt":"2019-12-20T14:05:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/3gozdergisi.com\/?p=1469"},"modified":"2019-12-20T17:15:27","modified_gmt":"2019-12-20T14:15:27","slug":"1469","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/3gozdergisi.com\/?p=1469","title":{"rendered":"Zihin ve Benlik"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dergide yazar m\u0131s\u0131n? teklifi geldi\u011finde, payla\u015fmak istedi\u011fim \u015feylerin \u00e7oklu\u011fu ve ne yazsam ki acaba diye ge\u00e7irdi\u011fim \u015fa\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n birbirine kar\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 ile bilgisayar\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131na oturdum. Sat\u0131rlar akm\u0131yordu, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc ilk defa kendim i\u00e7in de\u011filde ba\u015fkas\u0131 i\u00e7in yazmam gerekti\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeye ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Ve kendime yazmad\u0131\u011f\u0131mda sat\u0131rlar\u0131n pek de samimiyet i\u00e7ermedi\u011fini farkettim. Sanki birisine bir \u015feyler anlatmak, ciddiyetle yap\u0131labilecek bir \u015feymi\u015f ya da dergide yazman\u0131n mutlaka bir \u00fcslubu olmal\u0131ym\u0131\u015f gibi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler beni rahats\u0131z ediyorlard\u0131. Sonra tebess\u00fcm ederek, Ah evet sizleri farketti\u011fime g\u00f6re sevgili d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler! O halde konumuzda sizleri farketmek olsun dedim.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tan\u0131\u015fmam\u0131za bu yaz\u0131yla ba\u015flayaca\u011f\u0131z ve sonras\u0131nda insanla ilgili gizli kalm\u0131\u015f pek \u00e7ok konu \u00fczerinde sanki kar\u015f\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131ya sohbet ediyormu\u015f\u00e7as\u0131na payla\u015fmaya devam edece\u011fiz. Sevginin dili bak\u0131\u015flard\u0131r, bende her yaz\u0131mla sizin g\u00f6zlerinizin i\u00e7ine, ruhunuzun tebess\u00fcm etti\u011fi noktaya do\u011fru bakaca\u011f\u0131m. Bak\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z kesi\u015fti\u011finde ise oradan bir fark\u0131ndal\u0131k do\u011facak ve hayat\u0131n\u0131za etki edecek. \u0130nsanla ilgili temel konular\u0131 \u00e7ekinmeden sorgulayaca\u011f\u0131z, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnece\u011fiz, a\u00e7\u0131p geni\u015fletece\u011fiz. Hatalar yapaca\u011f\u0131z, do\u011frular\u0131 bulaca\u011f\u0131z sonra da onun ger\u00e7ekli\u011fini hayatta tadaca\u011f\u0131z.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ya\u015famda b\u00fct\u00fcn aray\u0131\u015flar \u201cBen\u201d i bilmek, \u201cBen\u201d i mutlu k\u0131lmak ve \u201cBen\u201d i doyuma ula\u015ft\u0131rmak i\u00e7indir. Ama bu \u201cBen\u201d hangi Ben\u2019dir. Bu soru her ne kadar \u00e7o\u011fu insana garip gelse de ve \u201cNe demek hangi Ben, ka\u00e7 tane Ben var ki?\u201d diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnseler de, biraz sonra i\u00e7imize yapaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z yolculukta farkl\u0131 \u015feylerle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015faca\u011f\u0131z. Haydi beraber bakal\u0131m.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">0-7 ya\u015f aras\u0131nda hen\u00fcz Benlik geli\u015ftirememi\u015f insan yavrusu, yo\u011fun bilgi ak\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n belli bir e\u015fik noktas\u0131n\u0131 ge\u00e7mesi ve anne babas\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan koyulan ismin kendisine binlerce kez tekrar edilmesi sayesinde zihnine ve dolay\u0131s\u0131yla v\u00fccuduyla (ismiyle) b\u00fct\u00fcnle\u015fmi\u015f bir Benlik alg\u0131s\u0131na kavu\u015fur. Ki\u015fi her kendine bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda sadece v\u00fccudunu g\u00f6rmektedir ve v\u00fccudunu g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde kendi ismi kafas\u0131nda belirmektedir. V\u00fccut = \u0130sim = Ben\u00a0 durumu olu\u015fmu\u015ftur art\u0131k.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Zihin adeta ki\u015finin \u201c\u00d6zbeni\u201d \u00fczerine \u00f6rt\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f bir perde gibidir. Bir \u00e7ok katmana ev sahipli\u011fi yapar ve hepsini temsil eder. Bu katmanlar ise, duygular, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler, hayaller, inan\u00e7lard\u0131r. Hepsi birbirine ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi yo\u011fun bir \u015fekilde Hissederseniz ve s\u00fcrekli kafan\u0131z\u0131n i\u00e7inde do\u011frularsan\u0131z sonunda inanca d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fecektir. Hayal kurdu\u011funuzda, ona d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce ve duygular e\u015flik edecektir. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda v\u00fccudunuzda hisler ortaya \u00e7\u0131kacakt\u0131r vb&#8230;\u00a0<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Peki d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler nereden gelmektedirler? Bize ait oldu\u011funu zannetti\u011fimiz ve \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcne savundu\u011fumuz d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler nereden gelmektedir? Ger\u00e7ekten bize mi aittirler yoksa nesilden nesile aktar\u0131lan toplumsal bir zihin yap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n askerleri midirler? Siz hi\u00e7 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen bir bebek g\u00f6rd\u00fcn\u00fcz m\u00fc? E\u011fer g\u00f6rmediyseniz, o zaman o bebe\u011fe d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri, inan\u00e7lar\u0131 ve kendi ko\u015fullanmalar\u0131n\u0131 kimin aktard\u0131\u011f\u0131na bakal\u0131m.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocuk temiz bir sayfa olarak do\u011far. Anne babas\u0131 onun ilk tanr\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r. Ve Onlar\u0131n s\u00f6yledi\u011fi her\u015fey ilahi bir emirdir. Aile \u00e7ocu\u011fun sessizli\u011fini bozan, onu cennetten kovan ilk ve en \u00f6nemli basamakt\u0131r. Toplumun ve sistemin temsilcisi ailedir. \u00c7ocu\u011fu ilk kirleten odur. Fakat bu ifadelerde bir su\u00e7lama de\u011fil, b\u00fct\u00fcn d\u00fcnyada olan ve olmas\u0131 asla durdurulamayacak olan bir olay\u0131n izah edildi\u011fine dikkat edin. Zira her do\u011fan bebek, kirletilmek zorundad\u0131r. Buna engel olunamaz. \u0130nsandaki yarat\u0131l\u0131\u015f mekanizmas\u0131 bu do\u011frultu \u00fczerine \u015fekillendirilmi\u015ftir. Zihnin ve Ben\u2019li\u011fin olu\u015fmamas\u0131 m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fildir. Fakat bunlar\u0131n olu\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131n sonu\u00e7lar\u0131 olan kaosun, insan\u0131n kaderi olmas\u0131 da beklenemez. Bu kaostan kas\u0131t, duygular\u0131n, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerin ve hayallerin i\u00e7inde kaybolmak, bir arzudan di\u011ferine savrulmak ve asla huzur ve mutluluk haline girememektir.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yarat\u0131c\u0131n\u0131n halifelik vasf\u0131na sahip olan insan, bu kaosu a\u015fabilme yetisine de sahiptir. \u0130nsanlar, ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131klar\u0131 \u201c\u00d6zben\u201di tekrar farkedebilme potansiyeline sahip olarak bu yery\u00fcz\u00fcnde var edilmi\u015ftir. Uykudan uyanmak ve oyuncaklar\u0131 terketmek olarak anlat\u0131lan olay budur. Uyanan ki\u015fi, yans\u0131yan g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcleri de\u011fil, o g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcn\u00fcn yans\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 perdeyi farkedebilme, o perdeyi g\u00f6reni farkedebilme ve g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn kendisini farkedebilme durumlar\u0131n\u0131 kendisinde a\u00e7\u0131\u011fa \u00e7\u0131karm\u0131\u015f olan ki\u015fidir.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Uyanmak ile uyanmamak aras\u0131ndaki tek fark, v\u00fccudunuz, duygular\u0131n\u0131z ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerinizin siz olmayabilece\u011fi olas\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131na zarif\u00e7e tan\u0131k olmak ve bunu gittik\u00e7e geni\u015fletebilmekten ibarettir. Uyuman\u0131n s\u0131rr\u0131 \u00f6zde\u015fle\u015fmek, uyanman\u0131n s\u0131rr\u0131 ise \u00f6zde\u015flikten zarif\u00e7e ayr\u0131\u015fabilmektir. Basit bir \u00f6rnek vermek gerekirse, yeni bir elbise ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim. Giyip aynan\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na ge\u00e7iyorum ve v\u00fccudumla \u00f6zde\u015fle\u015fmenin getirisi olarak,\u00a0 K\u0131yafetleri kendisine \u00e7ok yak\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f olan \u201cv\u00fccut Ben\u2019ime\u201d hayran kal\u0131yorum. Sonra d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yorum ve yemekteyken \u00fcst\u00fcme \u015farap d\u00f6k\u00fcl\u00fcyor, k\u0131yafetim berbat oldu. Yoksa \u201cBen\u201d mi berbat oldum? Bu kadar k\u0131zd\u0131\u011f\u0131ma ve \u00fcz\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcme g\u00f6re k\u0131yafetlerimin de\u011fil \u201cBen\u201dim \u00fcst\u00fcme \u00e7\u0131kmayan bir \u015farap d\u00f6k\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f olmal\u0131. \u201cBen\u201dime \u015farap yap\u0131\u015ft\u0131, nas\u0131l kurtulaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131 da bilmiyorum. \u201cBen\u201dimin \u00f6fkesi ve \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fcs\u00fc ge\u00e7ene kadar \u015farap \u00fcst\u00fcme yap\u0131\u015fmaya devam ediyor. Pahal\u0131 bir \u015farap olmal\u0131, saatlerce beni b\u00f6yle oyalad\u0131\u011f\u0131na g\u00f6re. \u015earab\u0131n d\u00f6k\u00fclme s\u00fcresinin bi ka\u00e7 saniye ama yaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131 duygusal sonucun saatlerce s\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc g\u00f6z \u00f6n\u00fcne al\u0131n\u0131rsa bu \u201cBen\u201d biraz aptal olmal\u0131 \u263a\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Her \u00f6zde\u015flik kendi k\u0131s\u0131r do\u011fas\u0131 nedeniyle b\u00f6l\u00fcc\u00fc, par\u00e7alay\u0131c\u0131, daralt\u0131c\u0131 ve bu nedenle de B\u00fct\u00fcnsel olan \u201cFark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011fa\u201d nispetle ahmak\u00e7ad\u0131r. B\u00fct\u00fcn \u00f6zde\u015flikler her ne kadar o an i\u00e7in bizi mutlu ediyor gibi g\u00f6z\u00fckselerde, ge\u00e7ici do\u011falar\u0131 nedeniyle mutlaka bizde kaybedi\u015f, \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fc, \u00f6fke, i\u00e7erleme, de\u011fersizlik vb. duygu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce sarmallar\u0131na sebep olacaklard\u0131r. Her \u00f6zde\u015flik belli bir atmosfere sahip olan gezegenler gibidirler. Gezegen ne kadar b\u00fcy\u00fck ya da ne kadar ferah olursa olsun, mutlaka bir s\u0131n\u0131rla \u00e7er\u00e7evelenmi\u015ftir. Oysa Fark\u0131ndal\u0131k dedi\u011fimiz, \u00d6zben\u2019in tan\u0131kl\u0131k ve g\u00f6zlem hali. Uzay bo\u015flu\u011fu gibidir. Her\u015feyi \u00e7epe\u00e7evre ku\u015fatmakla kalmay\u0131p, her\u015feye hayat verir ve hi\u00e7bir \u015feyle de kay\u0131tl\u0131 olmaz. O y\u00fczden zihnin durmas\u0131, \u201c\u00d6zben\u201d in bo\u015fluk ve huzur dolu deryas\u0131na gark olmaya sebep olur. Bu bo\u015fluk, b\u00fct\u00fcn huzurun, sevginin ve mutlulu\u011fun yegane sebebidir. \u201c\u00d6zben\u201din do\u011fas\u0131, hi\u00e7 bir sebebe ihtiya\u00e7 duyulmadan ya\u015fan\u0131lan bu Varolu\u015f hallerini meydana getirmektedir. Bu \u201cVarolu\u015fun\u201d kendi halidir.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ama bu \u00e7a\u011fda, bu ko\u015fu\u015fturmaca i\u00e7inde bu m\u00fcmk\u00fcn m\u00fc can\u0131m? diye soruyorsun, duyuyorum. Bende seni, Bu soru format\u0131nda kendini sende a\u00e7\u0131\u011fa \u00e7\u0131kartan ve kendisiyle \u00f6zde\u015fle\u015ftiren bu \u201cd\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce\u201dden zarif\u00e7e ayr\u0131\u015fmaya ve \u201cSen\u201di bu \u201cd\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce\u201d olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 farketmeye davet ediyorum. \u015euurunu geriye \u00e7ek ve bu soruya \u201chakl\u0131l\u0131k\u201d denilen zihin mekanizmas\u0131n\u0131 kullanmadan \u201coldu\u011fu\u201d gibi \u201cBak\u201d. Her\u015feye oldu\u011fu gibi bakabilirsen, uyanman\u0131n ne demek oldu\u011funu anlayacaks\u0131n.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncenin sadece bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce oldu\u011funu, duygunun sadece bir duygu oldu\u011funu, hayalin sadece bir hayal oldu\u011funu ve d\u0131\u015fsal ko\u015fullar dedi\u011fin \u015feylerin hepsine bu duygu, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce ve hayal vas\u0131tas\u0131yla bak\u0131p kendi s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 olu\u015fturdu\u011funu ve daha sonrada bunlara mutlak ger\u00e7ekliklermi\u015f gibi iman etti\u011fini \u201cfarketti\u011finde\u201d zihnin b\u00fcy\u00fcs\u00fc bozulmaya ba\u015flar. Ben, seni, iman etti\u011fin \u015feyleri sorgulamaya davet ediyorum. Her\u015feyin asli do\u011fas\u0131na beraber bakmaya davet ediyorum. Her \u00f6zde\u015fle\u015fti\u011fimiz \u015feyin bat\u0131p gitmeye, \u00f6l\u00fcp gitmeye, ge\u00e7ip gitmeye mahkum oldu\u011funu farketmeye davet ediyorum. Hani Hz. \u0130brahim, y\u0131ld\u0131zlara, aya ve g\u00fcne\u015fe bak\u0131p onlar\u0131n Rabbi oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc ve sonra \u201cBen batanlar\u0131 sevmem.\u201d demi\u015fti. \u0130\u015fte bizde batanlardan yana de\u011filde, o hi\u00e7 batmayan ve yok olmayan ilahi bo\u015fluktan yana olursak. O fark\u0131ndal\u0131k bizde gittik\u00e7e daha da \u00e7ok geni\u015flemeye ba\u015flayacakt\u0131r.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Uyananlar demi\u015flerdir ki: Zihin m\u00fckemmel bir ara\u00e7t\u0131r ve \u00e7ok k\u00f6t\u00fc bir efendidir. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmekte, hissetmekte, hayal etmekte k\u00f6t\u00fc bir \u015fey olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 fakat bunlarla \u00f6zde\u015fle\u015fmekte ve kendimizi kaybetmekte bir sorun oldu\u011funu anlamal\u0131y\u0131z. \u201c\u00d6zben\u201din fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011f\u0131 kaybedilmeden d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclen hi\u00e7bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce, hissedilen hi\u00e7 bir duygu senin huzurunu bozamaz. Bilin\u00e7 %1 alan kaplar, bilin\u00e7alt\u0131n ise %99 ve sen bu %1\u2019lik k\u0131s\u0131m ile %99\u2019u ayd\u0131nlatmak ile m\u00fckellefsin. Halifelik s\u0131rr\u0131 budur. Bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n zaman bak\u0131lan\u0131n de\u011fil, bak\u0131\u015f\u0131n fark\u0131nda ol. Her \u00f6zde\u015fle\u015fti\u011finde, bunu farketti\u011fin an zarif\u00e7e geriye \u00e7ekil. \u00d6zben\u2019ini bir fikir olmaktan kurtar. \u00d6zben\u2019ini duygu seli i\u00e7inde savrulmaktan ar\u0131nd\u0131r. O\u2019nu r\u00fcyadan uyand\u0131r. \u00d6lmeden evvel \u00f6lmek \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131na kulak ver. Ey dostum! O bilincin \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 her h\u00fccremize yaymam\u0131z dile\u011fiyle&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kerem Ali Alt\u0131nkaya<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">ar\u015fivden<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dergide yazar m\u0131s\u0131n? teklifi geldi\u011finde, payla\u015fmak istedi\u011fim \u015feylerin \u00e7oklu\u011fu ve ne yazsam ki acaba diye ge\u00e7irdi\u011fim \u015fa\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n birbirine kar\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 ile bilgisayar\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131na oturdum. Sat\u0131rlar akm\u0131yordu, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc ilk defa kendim i\u00e7in de\u011filde ba\u015fkas\u0131 i\u00e7in yazmam gerekti\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeye ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Ve kendime yazmad\u0131\u011f\u0131mda sat\u0131rlar\u0131n pek de samimiyet i\u00e7ermedi\u011fini farkettim. 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