{"id":1516,"date":"2019-12-23T15:14:53","date_gmt":"2019-12-23T12:14:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/3gozdergisi.com\/?p=1516"},"modified":"2019-12-23T15:38:56","modified_gmt":"2019-12-23T12:38:56","slug":"bin-yillik-sorulara-bin-yillik-cevaplar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/3gozdergisi.com\/?p=1516","title":{"rendered":"Bin Y\u0131ll\u0131k Sorulara Bin Y\u0131ll\u0131k Cevaplar – I"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Sorular bin y\u0131ll\u0131k… cevaplar bin y\u0131ll\u0131k\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

ama yine de tekrarlanmal\u0131\u2026\u00a0<\/span>\u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc biz yeniyiz\u2026<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

***<\/span><\/p>\n

Eski anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131z, kabullerimiz, \u015fablonlar\u0131m\u0131z, inan\u00e7lar\u0131m\u0131z, imgelerimiz dursun isteriz\u2026 E\u015fyalarla dolu bir odada, e\u015fyalar\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kartmadan bo\u015fluk isteriz\u2026 E\u015fyalar\u0131 bo\u015faltmakta direndi\u011fimizden kaybetti\u011fimiz zaman i\u00e7in ise, kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdakini su\u00e7lar\u0131z\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

M\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fildir midir bu isteklerimiz?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cZen \u00f6\u011frencileri, dingin bir zihin ve konsantrasyon gerektiren \u00e7e\u015fitli \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar yapmaktad\u0131rlar. Uzun s\u00fcren \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar sonucunda ilerlemek ve anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 sa\u011flamak ise zordur. Baz\u0131lar\u0131 b\u0131rak\u0131r. Baz\u0131lar\u0131 dengesini yitirir. Baz\u0131lar\u0131 ise s\u00fcrekli \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131na devam ederler. Bu \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalara tahamm\u00fcl etmek ve zihnin hareketlerine sab\u0131r g\u00f6stermek kolay de\u011fildir.\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

\u00d6\u011frenci ona verilen koan \u00fczerine derin d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceye dalar ve meditasyon yapar. Belirli bir s\u00fcre sonra ustas\u0131n\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na \u00e7\u0131kar ve koan\u0131n cevab\u0131n\u0131 vermeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Ustas\u0131 cevaptan tatmin olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda onu \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya geri g\u00f6nderir, bazen kovar veya kendine gelmesi i\u00e7in ona vurabilir. \u00d6\u011frenci geri d\u00f6ner ve \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131na devam eder. Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7 ger\u00e7ekten sab\u0131r ve tahamm\u00fcl ister.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Ustan\u0131n \u00f6\u011frencisinden memnun olmas\u0131 durumunda ise -ki bunun \u00f6\u011frenci taraf\u0131ndan anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r hi\u00e7bir neden yokken olmas\u0131 muhtemeldir-, bir sonraki seviyeye ge\u00e7ilir. Ustan\u0131n memnuniyetini g\u00f6sterme yollar\u0131nda biri de, \u00f6\u011frencisiyle kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 saki i\u00e7erek, bunu kutlamakt\u0131r.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Bir\u00e7ok \u00f6\u011frenciye oldu\u011fu gibi, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n yo\u011funlu\u011fundan sabr\u0131 ta\u015fm\u0131\u015f ve akl\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fczg\u00fcn kullanma yetisini o an i\u00e7in kaybetmi\u015f bir \u00f6\u011frenci, kendisini daha fazla tutamayarak, h\u0131\u015f\u0131mla ustas\u0131n\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na \u00e7\u0131kar. Elinde tuttu\u011fu b\u0131\u00e7a\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6stererek:<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

\u201cBana hakikati ver… Yoksa seni \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcr\u00fcm!\u201d der.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Ustas\u0131 cevap verir : Sana hakikati verirsem, onu koyacak hi\u00e7bir yerin yok…\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

***<\/span><\/p>\n

Dikkatimiz maymun gibi atlarken bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceden bir di\u011ferine\u2026\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

H\u0131rs ve kendini kaybetmi\u015flik i\u00e7inde bir r\u00fcyadaym\u0131\u015f\u00e7as\u0131na ya\u015farken\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

Dikkatimizi nas\u0131l \u00e7ekebilir hayat?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cBir adam, kat\u0131r\u0131n\u0131n son derece huysuz ve s\u00f6z dinlemez olmas\u0131 nedeniyle, onu e\u011fitmesi i\u00e7in bir usta \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131r. Usta sonunda g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr. A\u011f\u0131la girer ve kat\u0131ra bakar. Kat\u0131r huysuzlanmaya devam etmektedir. Usta bir anda kat\u0131r\u0131n kafas\u0131na \u00f6yle ani ve h\u0131zl\u0131 vurur ki, kat\u0131r ne oldu\u011funu anlayamadan yere serilir.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Kat\u0131r\u0131n sahibi \u201cSeni kat\u0131r\u0131 e\u011fitmen i\u00e7in tuttum, onu \u00f6ld\u00fcrmen i\u00e7in de\u011fil\u201d der.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Usta cevap verir : Kat\u0131r\u0131n\u0131 e\u011fitece\u011fim. Ama \u00f6nce onun dikkatini \u00e7ekmem gerekli…\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

(Kat\u0131r, bizim egomuz ve inat\u00e7\u0131 zihnimizden ba\u015fkas\u0131 de\u011fildir hikayede\u2026)<\/span><\/p>\n

***<\/span><\/p>\n

Her \u00e7i\u00e7ekten bal al\u0131p, her kitab\u0131 okuyup, nesnel bilgileri biriktirip ard\u0131ndan da kendimize g\u00f6re bir sentez yaparak her \u015feyi halledece\u011fimizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fcz\u2026 Oysa bu sadece daha g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir ego yaratarak, oyuncaklarla hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 harcama s\u00fcrecimizi daha da \u00fcmitsiz hale getirmez mi? Kendi ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131za yapaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z her\u015feyde yine kendi egomuz olmayacak m\u0131d\u0131r? Kendimizi kendi yakam\u0131zdan tutup havaya kald\u0131ramayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 biliriz de, kendi egomuzu kendi egomuzla ortadan kald\u0131ramayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131za inanmay\u0131z bir t\u00fcrl\u00fc\u2026 Bir kuyuyu su \u00e7\u0131kana kadar kazmak yerine, yar\u0131m kalm\u0131\u015f bin \u00e7ukur a\u00e7arak su bulmay\u0131 umar\u0131z\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

Yok mudur bir yolu?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cUzakdo\u011fu d\u00f6v\u00fc\u015f sanat\u0131 \u00f6\u011frencisi ustas\u0131na gider ve \u2018D\u00f6v\u00fc\u015f sanatlar\u0131 konusundaki bilgimi geli\u015ftirmek istiyorum. Bu nedenle bir yandan sizinle \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken, bir yandan farkl\u0131 bir ustadan farkl\u0131 bir stil \u00f6\u011frenmek istiyorum. Bu konuda ki d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceniz nedir?\u2019 diye sorar.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

\u2018\u0130ki tav\u015fan\u0131 kovalayan, hi\u00e7birini yakalayamaz\u2026\u2019 der ustas\u0131…\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

***<\/span><\/p>\n

Sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z yerinde ve hayat\u0131m\u0131z yolundayken \u015f\u00fckretmez, ancak bunlar riske girdi\u011finde de\u011ferlerini hat\u0131rlar\u0131z\u2026 Bir \u015feyin de\u011ferini anlamak veya tad\u0131n\u0131 almak i\u00e7in ondan mahrum olmay\u0131 beklemek ne kadar mant\u0131kl\u0131d\u0131r?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cOrmanda y\u00fcr\u00fcyen adam, kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na \u00e7\u0131kan kaplan\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde korkuyla ka\u00e7maya ba\u015flar. Kaplan t\u00fcm h\u0131z\u0131 ve \u00e7evikli\u011fiyle adam\u0131 kovalamakta, ona gittik\u00e7e yakla\u015fmaktad\u0131r. En sonunda adam bir u\u00e7urumun kenar\u0131na gelir. Kaplan tek ka\u00e7\u0131\u015f y\u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fc kapatm\u0131\u015f, a\u011f\u0131r a\u011f\u0131r yakla\u015fmaya ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Adam arkas\u0131na bakar ve \u00e7aresiz bir \u015fekilde, u\u00e7urumdan a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 sarkan, kal\u0131n bir b\u00f6\u011f\u00fcrtlen k\u00f6k\u00fcne tutunarak, kendini a\u015fa\u011f\u0131ya sark\u0131t\u0131r. Kaplan y\u00fcksek u\u00e7urumun tepesinden adam\u0131 izlemektedir. T\u00fcm bunlar\u0131n \u00fczerine, iki fare topraktaki yuvalar\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131karak b\u00f6\u011f\u00fcrtlenin k\u00f6k\u00fcn\u00fc kemirmeye ba\u015flarlar. K\u00f6k yava\u015f yava\u015f yerinden \u00e7\u0131kmaya ba\u015flar. T\u00fcm umutsuzlu\u011fun ve karma\u015fan\u0131n ortas\u0131nda adam\u0131n g\u00f6z\u00fcne tutundu\u011fu dalda bulunan yabani b\u00f6\u011f\u00fcrtlen ili\u015fir. B\u00f6\u011f\u00fcrtleni kopar\u0131r ve a\u011fz\u0131na atar. Tad\u0131 o kadar g\u00fczel gelir ki b\u00f6\u011f\u00fcrtlenin\u2026\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

\u00c7a\u011fr\u0131 D\u00f6rter<\/b><\/p>\n

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