{"id":20,"date":"2017-04-04T12:31:53","date_gmt":"2017-04-04T09:31:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/3gozdergisi.com\/blog\/?p=20"},"modified":"2017-04-04T12:31:53","modified_gmt":"2017-04-04T09:31:53","slug":"mutlu-evlilik-icin-oneriler","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/3gozdergisi.com\/?p=20","title":{"rendered":"Mutlu Evlilik i\u00e7in \u00d6neriler"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>NOT: Bu sat\u0131rlar\u0131n yazar\u0131 sizlerden,13 y\u0131ll\u0131k mutlu bir evlili\u011fin orta\u011f\u0131 ve 51 y\u0131ll\u0131k bir evlili\u011fin ise ilk meyvesi oldu\u011funu bilerek okuman\u0131z\u0131 rica ediyor&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklu\u011fumdan beri bana sa\u00e7ma gelen bir deyi\u015f \u201cMant\u0131k Evlili\u011fi\u201ddir. Evlilik ve her t\u00fcr ili\u015fki mant\u0131k ve zihin ile ba\u015flar ve y\u00fcrek ikinci planda kal\u0131rsa oradan uzun s\u00fcreli ve mutlu bir birliktelik \u00e7\u0131kartmak kolay olmayacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7iftlerin kalben birlikteli\u011fi zihinsel birlikteli\u011fi de sa\u011flar ama tersi \u00e7ok \u00e7ok zor ger\u00e7ekle\u015fir.<\/p>\n<p>Bu durum \u00e7iftlerin her t\u00fcrl\u00fc \u015fart da birbirlerinin istek ve ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6nde tutmas\u0131n\u0131 ve sevgi, sayg\u0131 ve ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u00e7ok daha derin ve g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc \u015fekilde olu\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flayacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130li\u015fki bir \u015feyler almay\u0131, elde etmeyi umarak ya\u015fan\u0131l\u0131rsa s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fclebilir olamaz. \u0130li\u015fki \u00f6ncelikle kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ks\u0131z olarak verme ve her \u015fart alt\u0131nda once e\u015finizin isteklerine odaklanma durumunda s\u00fcrekli geli\u015fir ve b\u00fcy\u00fcr hale gelebilir.<\/p>\n<p>Bunun i\u00e7in de her iki taraf\u0131n da \u00f6nce kendilerine kar\u015f\u0131 sevgi ve g\u00fcven duymalar\u0131 \u00f6n \u015fartt\u0131r. Bu durumdaki partnerler birbirlerine kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7ok daha yak\u0131n olup sevgiyi daha derinden hissedebilecektir. Bu derinlik ise yak\u0131nl\u0131k , samimiyet , \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck ve d\u0131\u015f \u015fartlar ne olursa olsun ko\u015fulsuz sevginin ortaya \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flayacakt\u0131r. Ger\u00e7ek a\u015fk d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan gelen her t\u00fcrl\u00fc olumsuzlu\u011fa \u201cra\u011fmen\u201d ya\u015fanabilendir zaten.<\/p>\n<p>Ancak bundan sonra her iki taraf da kendi enerjilerini maksimumda kullan\u0131r hale gelebilirler. Buradaki enerjiden kast\u0131m di\u015fil ve eril enerjiler. \u0130li\u015fkide bu iki enerjinin do\u011fru payla\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 ve u\u00e7lara do\u011fru ya\u015fanmas\u0131 ili\u015fkiyi tabiri caizse \u201cu\u00e7uracakt\u0131r\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Evliliklerin sa\u011flam temellerde olu\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131n \u015fartlar\u0131ndan biri de \u00e7iftlerin ger\u00e7eklik ve d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fckten hi\u00e7 kopmadan kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 korumalar\u0131d\u0131r. Bu a\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131k gerekirse k\u0131r\u0131lganl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 ve zay\u0131fl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 da farketmeleri ve payla\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131 da kapsar. Cesur ve d\u00fcr\u00fcst \u00e7iftleri ise hi\u00e7bir olumsuzluk y\u0131ld\u0131ramaz. Tabiri caizse bir matematik form\u00fcl art\u0131k y\u0131k\u0131labilir, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc art\u0131k 1+1 = 1 \u2018dir.<\/p>\n<p>Bu yeni 1 art\u0131k o kadar g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ve sa\u011flamd\u0131r ki, etraf\u0131ndaki her \u015feye \u0131\u015f\u0131k olmaya ba\u015flar. Kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k beklemeden verme, \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr , sab\u0131r, r\u0131za gibi g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc erdemler ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar ve ger\u00e7ekten bu D\u00fcnya\u2019da ya\u015fayabilece\u011fimiz en muhte\u015fem ili\u015fki ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar.<\/p>\n<p>Bu muhte\u015fem yap\u0131n\u0131n sorunsuz \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya devam\u0131 i\u00e7in bir ka\u00e7 ufak notu da eklemek isterim;<\/p>\n<p>*Kendinize de\u011fil partnerinizin istek ve ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131na odaklan\u0131n<\/p>\n<p>*Sevgi duygusu di\u011fer t\u00fcm duygulardan \u00f6zellikle de nefret, korku ve ac\u0131 gibi olumsuz duygulardan \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<p>*Kendinizi tan\u0131y\u0131n ve bilin. Kendi ger\u00e7e\u011fini ve \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc bilen ve ya\u015fayan biri, bir ili\u015fki i\u00e7in en b\u00fcy\u00fck \u015fartt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>*\u0130li\u015fkide su\u00e7lama, savunma, hor g\u00f6rmeve duvar \u00f6rme gibi zehirleri asla kullanmay\u0131n, size kar\u015f\u0131 kullan\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 m\u00fcsaade etmeyin.<\/p>\n<p>*K\u0131r\u0131lganl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131za ve ac\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131za de\u011fil, keyif ve arzular\u0131n\u0131za odaklan\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>*Ge\u00e7mi\u015fin pi\u015fmanl\u0131k ve ac\u0131lar\u0131, gelece\u011fin kayg\u0131 ve bilinmezlikleri yerine \u015fu andaki keyif, ne\u015fe ve g\u00fczelliklere odaklan\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>*\u015eartlar ne olursa olsun d\u00fcr\u00fcst olun.<\/p>\n<p>* Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z, kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z, tecr\u00fcbe etti\u011finiz her \u015fey de g\u00fczellik ve iyili\u011fi g\u00f6r\u00fcn ve yans\u0131t\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>*Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z her \u015fey i\u00e7in \u015f\u00fckrederek sevginizin daha da b\u00fcy\u00fcmesini sa\u011flay\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Yaz\u0131: Kemal \u0130slamo\u011flu<\/p>\n<p>kemal@kemalislamoglu.com<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/kemalislamoglu1966?fref=ts\">Facebook<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.kemalislamoglu.com\">www.kemalislamoglu.com<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>NOT: Bu sat\u0131rlar\u0131n yazar\u0131 sizlerden,13 y\u0131ll\u0131k mutlu bir evlili\u011fin orta\u011f\u0131 ve 51 y\u0131ll\u0131k bir evlili\u011fin ise ilk meyvesi oldu\u011funu bilerek okuman\u0131z\u0131 rica ediyor&#8230; \u00c7ocuklu\u011fumdan beri bana sa\u00e7ma gelen bir deyi\u015f \u201cMant\u0131k Evlili\u011fi\u201ddir. Evlilik ve her t\u00fcr ili\u015fki mant\u0131k ve zihin ile ba\u015flar ve y\u00fcrek ikinci planda kal\u0131rsa oradan uzun s\u00fcreli<span class=\"more-link\"><a href=\"https:\/\/3gozdergisi.com\/?p=20\">Read More &rarr;<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":21,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["entry","author-dergi","post-20","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-genel"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/3gozdergisi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/couple-river-bank.jpg?fit=1695%2C1133&ssl=1","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":973,"url":"https:\/\/3gozdergisi.com\/?p=973","url_meta":{"origin":20,"position":0},"title":"Mutlu Evlilik i\u00e7in \u00d6neriler","author":"g\u00fcler p\u0131narba\u015f\u0131","date":"10 May\u0131s 2019","format":false,"excerpt":"\u0130li\u015fki bir \u015feyler almay\u0131, elde etmeyi umarak ya\u015fan\u0131l\u0131rsa s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fclebilir olamaz. \u0130li\u015fki \u00f6ncelikle kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ks\u0131z olarak verme ve her \u015fart alt\u0131nda \u00f6nce e\u015finizin isteklerine odaklanma durumunda s\u00fcrekli geli\u015fir ve b\u00fcy\u00fcr hale gelebilir. 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