{"id":2025,"date":"2020-04-04T13:38:01","date_gmt":"2020-04-04T10:38:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/3gozdergisi.com\/?p=2025"},"modified":"2020-04-04T16:30:01","modified_gmt":"2020-04-04T13:30:01","slug":"kusurlarimizin-mukemmelligi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/3gozdergisi.com\/?p=2025","title":{"rendered":"Kusurlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n M\u00fckemmelli\u011fi!"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00a0\u201cHasara u\u011frad\u0131ysan, ac\u0131 \u00e7ekmi\u015fsen, k\u0131r\u0131k d\u00f6k\u00fcklerini g\u00f6rd\u00fcysen art\u0131k bu ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131nla sen daha da de\u011ferlisin\u201d diyor, bir Japon sanat\u0131.<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

600.Y\u0131l \u00f6nce Japonya\u2019da kusurlar\u0131n m\u00fckemmelli\u011fini anlatan bu sanat\u0131n ad\u0131, Kin-tsugi (Alt\u0131nla birle\u015ftirme)<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0ve\u00a0Kin-tsukuroi (Alt\u0131nla tamir)<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Japonca\u2019da; Kin: Alt\u0131n, Tsugi: Birle\u015ftirmek, Tsukuroi: Tamir etmek, demek.<\/p>\n

Japonlar ideal soyut ya\u015fam felsefesini el sanat\u0131yla somut hale getirerek bunu elle tutulur g\u00f6zle g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr hale sokmu\u015flar. Hem ya\u015fa hem de uygula\u2026<\/p>\n

Bu sanattan anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m; m\u00fckemmelli\u011fe giden yolun mutlaka kusurlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n i\u00e7inden ge\u00e7mesi gerekti\u011fi\u2026 Hasara u\u011frayan her ne ise, ki bu bir e\u015fya ya da insan olabilir; ac\u0131 \u00e7ekmi\u015fse mutlaka bir ders alm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r, bir hat\u0131raya sahiptir. Ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 ona de\u011fer katm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.\u00a0 Ve o ki\u015fi daha tecr\u00fcbeli, daha g\u00fczel, daha de\u011ferli oldu\u011fundan art\u0131k eskisi gibi ayn\u0131 ki\u015fi de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin; Japonlar k\u0131r\u0131lan porselen, seramik gibi de\u011ferli par\u00e7alar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6pe atmak yerine alt\u0131n tozuyla yap\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131p amac\u0131na uygun hale getiriyorlar. Tamir malzemesi pahal\u0131 da olsa k\u0131r\u0131lan yerleri onar\u0131rken kusurlar\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcne gidip d\u00fczeltmenin yollar\u0131n\u0131 ar\u0131yorlar. K\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f porselenin \u00e7atlaklar\u0131 alt\u0131n tozu ile birle\u015ftirilmi\u015f yeni g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcs\u00fcyle ortaya \u00e7\u0131kart\u0131l\u0131yor. Bireyler saklanmadan ruhlar\u0131nda, nesneler ise y\u00fczeyinde kusuru ile birle\u015fmi\u015f oluyor.<\/p>\n

Dile gelse sanki \u015f\u00f6yle s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor; \u201cKusurumu kabul ettim, alt\u0131n tozuyla o k\u0131r\u0131lan\/k\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m \u015feyleri, \u00e7atlaklar\u0131, kendimi, di\u011ferini tamir ettim. \u015eimdi bu alt\u0131n deneyimlerimle b\u00fct\u00fcnle\u015fip yeniden y\u00fcr\u00fcyorum. G\u00fczellikleri yeni de de\u011fil, eskiyende, gidende, k\u0131r\u0131landa g\u00f6rmem gerek. Bunun i\u00e7in bu \u015feye de\u011fer katacak alt\u0131n tozuyla elimdekini onar\u0131p amac\u0131n\u0131 yapmas\u0131na hizmet ediyorum. Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7 bana kusurlar\u0131mdan ders almam\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretiyor. Hatalar\u0131mla var olma yerine bunlar\u0131 bir faydaya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrerek parl\u0131yorum. \u00a0Bu bir insan, e\u015fya, a\u011fa\u00e7, vs\u2026her \u015fey olabilir. Kusurlar\u0131m\u0131n m\u00fckemmelli\u011fi ile de\u011ferleniyorum.\u201d<\/p>\n

Daha da derin ara\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131mda bu sanat\u0131n temelini 16.y\u00fczy\u0131l \u201cWabi-Sabi<\/strong>\u201d <\/a>felsefesinden ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 okuyorum. Wabi<\/u><\/strong>: Do\u011fal, yal\u0131n, sade ve kusurlu olan\u0131n g\u00fczelli\u011fi, bir ya\u015fam \u015fekli, ruhani bir yol. Sabi<\/strong>:<\/u> Eski, ya\u015fl\u0131, kullan\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, y\u0131pranm\u0131\u015f ve a\u015f\u0131nm\u0131\u015f olan\u0131n g\u00fczelli\u011fi, nesneleri ve onlar\u0131n sanat\u0131n\u0131 temsil ediyor. Her iki \u00f6zg\u00fcn kelime yan yana geldi\u011finde yeni anlam\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7inde evrilip de\u011fer kazan\u0131yor. Wabi-Sabi<\/strong>;<\/u> Kusurlu,\u00a0ge\u00e7ici\u00a0ve\u00a0bitmemi\u015f, al\u00e7ak g\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc, m\u00fctevazi, nesnelerin al\u0131\u015f\u0131lmad\u0131k\u00a0g\u00fczelli\u011fi oluyor.<\/p>\n

Ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z, tutunduklar\u0131m\u0131z, b\u00fct\u00fcnsel bakamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z vah\u015fet dolu bu y\u00fczy\u0131la g\u00f6re \u00e7ok farkl\u0131 derin bir felsefe. \u00d6ncelikle ge\u00e7ici olana ba\u011flanm\u0131yor. Ba\u011fland\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feyler: duygusal olgunluk, kutsal bilgi ve deneyimler, do\u011fall\u0131k, ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015fl\u0131k, erdemler, b\u00fct\u00fcnsel yakla\u015f\u0131mlar<\/u>\u2026 Yetene\u011fini, a\u015fina olunmayan g\u00fczelli\u011fe geni\u015f bakmaya, onu do\u011fal haliyle kabullenmeye, ge\u00e7ici arzularla dolu m\u00fckemmellik yerine; \u015f\u00fckretmeye ve de\u011fer bilmeye odakl\u0131yor.<\/p>\n

G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz insan\u0131na bir ders niteli\u011finde.\u00a0 S\u00f6k\u00fck dikmeden, yaralar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n, travmalar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcne odaklanmadan tam ve b\u00fct\u00fcn\u00fcz edas\u0131yla dolan\u0131p \u201cKusursuz g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcmdeyim, bak ne g\u00fczelim\u2026ben den \u00e2l\u00e2 \u00e7i\u00e7ek yok!\u201d diyen, zay\u0131f, eksik g\u00fc\u00e7s\u00fcz g\u00f6r\u00fcnmekten korkan \u00e7atlak taraflar\u0131m\u0131z.<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Hayat alt\u0131n tozu ise i\u00e7ine sevgi suyunu, \u015fefkat baharat\u0131n\u0131, oldu\u011fu gibi kabul sihrini koyup s\u0131z\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131za serpebiliriz. Sakin, dingin kendimizi tamir ederken \u00f6zg\u00fcr d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeyi, hissetmeyi, detaylar\u0131 g\u00f6rmeyi, her duygu ile temas edebilmeyi \u00f6\u011frenebiliriz. Yeni \u015feyler yaratam\u0131yorsak, sanata d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fclen g\u00fczellikleri kendimize rehber olarak kullanabiliriz.<\/p>\n

Zira mesele her birimizin malzemesinin farkl\u0131 oldu\u011fu ger\u00e7e\u011fidir. Farkl\u0131 olmaktan, d\u0131\u015flanmaktan korktu\u011fumuz i\u00e7in kusursuz olmak ad\u0131na do\u011fal halimizden uzakla\u015ft\u0131k. Bize bi\u00e7ilenleri giydik. Birbirimize benzeyen bireyler olduk. \u00d6zg\u00fcnl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz kayboldu. Yarat\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmser olduk.<\/p>\n

Bu felsefe gibi bir s\u00fcr\u00fc \u00f6\u011fretiler var. \u00c7o\u011funu bilmiyoruz. Bildi\u011fim \u015fey do\u011fal olan\u0131n g\u00fczel oldu\u011funa olan inanc\u0131m ve bunun getirdi\u011fi \u00f6zg\u00fcnl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn birlik bilincine g\u00f6t\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcd\u00fcr. Kabul\u00fc g\u00f6ren yarat\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u0131\u015far\u0131ya g\u00f6sterebilir, \u00e7o\u011falabilir, hikayesi olan insan\/nesne bir ba\u015fkas\u0131na fayda sa\u011flar.<\/p>\n

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Bu yol uzundur ve hareket ettik\u00e7e tamamlanabilir. Bu s\u00fcreci izleyebilmek i\u00e7in sakin sadelik gerekir. Do\u011fall\u0131\u011fa s\u0131\u011fmayan suni beklentiler, arzular, hayaller kaybolup gidecektir. Birey ger\u00e7ek\u00e7ilikle tamamlanabilecektir.<\/p>\n

Yeni ya\u015famla bilin\u00e7li dans; yama yemi\u015f giysilere sahip kendini tamir edebilenlerin, zihin \u00e7atlaklar\u0131n\u0131 yeni n\u00f6ronlarla sarabilenlerin, k\u0131r\u0131lan kalplerinin nedenlerini \u00f6penlerin olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Konuyu birleyeyim o zaman:<\/p>\n

\u015eu anda COVIT-19 ile a\u011f\u0131r bir s\u00fcre\u00e7ten ge\u00e7iyoruz. \u00c7atlaklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcp d\u00f6k\u00fclen yerlerimizi elimizde ki alt\u0131n deneyimlerle yeniden tamir edelim. Kendimize de\u011fer katarken sadele\u015felim. Kendi kusurlar\u0131m\u0131zdan yeniden do\u011fmaya vakit daima var\u2026<\/p>\n

De\u011fi\u015fim, d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm her zaman pozitif anlamda olmasa dahi d\u00f6n\u00fcp gelece\u011fimiz yer eninde sonunda sadece ger\u00e7ek benli\u011fimiz. Ve \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fczde ki kusursuzlu\u011fu hissetti\u011fimizde varsayd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n bize ait olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anl\u0131yoruz. Tamir ile her \u015fey bir arada b\u00fct\u00fcnsel g\u00fczellikle par\u0131ld\u0131yordur kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zda. Ya\u015fam amac\u0131na uygun, kendi ger\u00e7e\u011fini yaratm\u0131\u015f olarak. \u00d6z\u00fcm\u00fczden ba\u015fka hi\u00e7bir \u015fey bize ait de\u011fildir. \u00a0O ki biricik ve tek oland\u0131r!<\/p>\n

Yaralar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131, k\u0131r\u0131lan taraflar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 sevgi tozlar\u0131yla yeniden birle\u015ftirmek ve bunu s\u00fcrd\u00fcrebilmek en y\u00fcce insan olma sanat\u0131 olsa gerek.<\/p>\n

Yol i\u00e7in yolcu gerek, \u00f6\u011frenmek i\u00e7in uygulamak gerek.<\/p>\n

Yol c\u00fcmleden uludur\u2026 Nasip ile,<\/p>\n

Bilge \u00d6ztoplu<\/a>\/27.03.2020<\/p>\n

Yazar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n kitab\u0131 Beni Tersten Oku ‘yu sat\u0131n almak i\u00e7in t\u0131klay\u0131n\u0131z<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n

(Kaynak\u00e7alar linklere eklenmi\u015ftir.)<\/em><\/p>\n

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\u00a0\u201cHasara u\u011frad\u0131ysan, ac\u0131 \u00e7ekmi\u015fsen, k\u0131r\u0131k d\u00f6k\u00fcklerini g\u00f6rd\u00fcysen art\u0131k bu ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131nla sen daha da de\u011ferlisin\u201d diyor, bir Japon sanat\u0131. 600.Y\u0131l \u00f6nce Japonya\u2019da kusurlar\u0131n m\u00fckemmelli\u011fini anlatan bu sanat\u0131n ad\u0131, Kin-tsugi (Alt\u0131nla birle\u015ftirme)\u00a0ve\u00a0Kin-tsukuroi (Alt\u0131nla tamir). Japonca\u2019da; Kin: Alt\u0131n, Tsugi: Birle\u015ftirmek, Tsukuroi: Tamir etmek, demek. Japonlar ideal soyut ya\u015fam felsefesini el sanat\u0131yla somut haleRead More →<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":2028,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[1248,1254,1253,1252,1246,1247,1249,1250,1251],"class_list":["entry","author-gulerpinarbasi","post-2025","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-genel","tag-altinla-tamir","tag-beni-tersten-oku","tag-bilge-oztoplu","tag-covit-19","tag-kin-tsugi","tag-kin-tsukuroi","tag-tsugi","tag-tsukuroi","tag-wabi-sabi"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/3gozdergisi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/k%C4%B1r%C4%B1k-vazo.jpg?fit=600%2C693&ssl=1","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":2269,"url":"https:\/\/3gozdergisi.com\/?p=2269","url_meta":{"origin":2025,"position":0},"title":"Aral\u0131k Ay\u0131 Y\u00fckselen Bur\u00e7 Yorumlar\u0131","author":"editor net","date":"11 Aral\u0131k 2020","format":false,"excerpt":"Y\u00fckselen Ko\u00e7lar \u0130kizler Burcu\u2019nda ger\u00e7ekle\u015fen dolunay evresindeki Ay\u2019\u0131n tutulmas\u0131yla ba\u015fl\u0131yoruz. 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