{"id":2140,"date":"2020-08-08T13:28:27","date_gmt":"2020-08-08T10:28:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/3gozdergisi.com\/?p=2140"},"modified":"2021-03-01T23:22:33","modified_gmt":"2021-03-01T20:22:33","slug":"gelecekten-umudum-var","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/3gozdergisi.com\/?p=2140","title":{"rendered":"Gelecekten umudum var!"},"content":{"rendered":"
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\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n a\u00e7\u0131lan fark\u0131ndal\u0131klar\u0131ndan gidiyoruz yine.<\/em><\/div>\n
Y\u0131l 2004 Kas\u0131m ay\u0131. Naturel Festivali’ndeyiz. Festivalden sonra da bir toplant\u0131m\u0131z var. \u0130ndigo \u00c7ocuklar hakk\u0131nda. Festivalde de bunu duyuraca\u011f\u0131z. Stand\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 kurduk. \u0130lgilileri bekliyoruz. Gelenler, gidenler, ho\u015fbe\u015f sohbetler…<\/em><\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n
\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0G\u00fcler P\u0131narba\u015f\u0131 <\/em><\/span><\/div>\n
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Bir bey geliyor stand\u0131m\u0131za. “\u00dc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc G\u00f6z nedir? diye soruyor. Yan\u0131nda da 5 ya\u015flar\u0131nda bir \u00e7ocuk var. O da ayn\u0131 soruyu soruyor. Ba\u011flant\u0131lar\u0131 var m\u0131? diye bak\u0131yorum, yok! \u00c7ocu\u011fun annesi ile yan\u0131mdaki masada bizim arkada\u015fla konu\u015fuyor.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Adam soruyor, \u00e7ocuk soruyor. Adama anlayaca\u011f\u0131 dilden anlat\u0131yorum, \u00e7ocu\u011fa nas\u0131l anlatay\u0131m diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum. Bir iki cevap verirken farkediyorum ki; \u00e7ocuk bilgilenmek i\u00e7in de\u011fil, ben biliyor muyum diye soruyor. \u0130\u015fimi bilerek mi yap\u0131yorum? Konular\u0131 bilerek mi anlat\u0131yorum?<\/div>\n
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Yan masada annesi ile arkada\u015f\u0131m hala konu\u015fuyor. Arkada\u015f\u0131m anneye yapaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z toplant\u0131 hakk\u0131nda bilgi veriyor. Davet ediyor. Kad\u0131n da mail adresini yaz\u0131yor. \u00c7ocuk da \u0131srar ediyor. Onunki de yaz\u0131lmal\u0131ym\u0131\u015f. Ona da ayr\u0131 form veriyoruz, mailini yaz\u0131yor \"\u263a\"<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Sonra annesi \u00e7ocu\u011fa diyor ki; “Bak bir toplant\u0131 varm\u0131\u015f, indigo \u00e7ocuklarla alakal\u0131” ona gidelim”<\/div>\n
\u00c7ocuk diyor ki;<\/div>\n
“Benimle alakal\u0131 konularda bana sormadan karar vermeni istemedi\u011fini s\u00f6ylemedim mi sana? Buna karar vermedik mi?”<\/div>\n
Anne:<\/div>\n
“Tamam, tamam” diyor, “gitmeyelim!”<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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O\u011flunu dinleyen bir anne. Sevinelim mi, \u00fcz\u00fclelim mi gelemeyi\u015flerine \u015fa\u015fk\u0131n\u0131z…<\/div>\n
Devreye giriyorum;<\/div>\n
“Niye gelmek istemiyorsun?” diye soruyorum. Ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m cevap \u015fu;<\/div>\n
“Kendi t\u00fcrlerimle \u015fu an g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmek istemiyorum.”<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Y\u0131llar ge\u00e7ti bu cevap akl\u0131mdan hi\u00e7 \u00e7\u0131kmad\u0131.<\/div>\n
“Kendi t\u00fcrlerimle \u015fu an g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmek istemiyorum.”…<\/div>\n
“Peki, ya ba\u015fka gezegende gelenler olursa?” diye bir hala daha yapt\u0131m.<\/div>\n
“O zaman belki gelmeyi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebiliriz.”<\/div>\n
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Toplant\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 yapt\u0131k. Kalabal\u0131k bir grup vard\u0131. Anneler, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131, gen\u00e7ler, babalar. O zaman 20’li ya\u015flar\u0131nda olan iki \u00e7ocuk sunum yapm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Bizim be\u015f ya\u015f\u0131ndaki \u00e7ocuk ve annesi gelmediler ama bu hikayem de hi\u00e7 akl\u0131mdan \u00e7\u0131kmad\u0131.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Nas\u0131l \u00e7\u0131ks\u0131n? \u00c7\u0131kmas\u0131n!<\/div>\n
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Demem \u015fu ki; o y\u0131llarda tohumlar at\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Belli ki daha \u00f6ncesinden. Bu y\u00fczden ben gelecekten umutluyum. \u0130ndigolar, kristaller, y\u0131ld\u0131zlar, p\u0131rlantalar… O kadar \u00e7oklar ki. Bir araya gelmeleri an meselesi…<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Umudum i\u015fte bu y\u00fczden!<\/div>\n
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G\u00fcler P\u0131narba\u015f\u0131<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n a\u00e7\u0131lan fark\u0131ndal\u0131klar\u0131ndan gidiyoruz yine. Y\u0131l 2004 Kas\u0131m ay\u0131. Naturel Festivali’ndeyiz. Festivalden sonra da bir toplant\u0131m\u0131z var. \u0130ndigo \u00c7ocuklar hakk\u0131nda. Festivalde de bunu duyuraca\u011f\u0131z. Stand\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 kurduk. \u0130lgilileri bekliyoruz. Gelenler, gidenler, ho\u015fbe\u015f sohbetler… \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0G\u00fcler P\u0131narba\u015f\u0131 *** Bir bey geliyor stand\u0131m\u0131za. “\u00dc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc G\u00f6z nedir? diye soruyor. 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