{"id":247,"date":"2017-06-04T15:42:05","date_gmt":"2017-06-04T12:42:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/3gozdergisi.com\/blog\/?p=247"},"modified":"2017-06-04T15:42:05","modified_gmt":"2017-06-04T12:42:05","slug":"hisset","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/3gozdergisi.com\/?p=247","title":{"rendered":"Hisset\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"

Yaz\u0131: Mine Madeno\u011flu<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>\u00a0\"\"<\/a>\u00a0\"\"<\/a><\/p>\n

\u0130stemek\u2026 Ne kadar derinli\u011fi olan bir kelimedir. K\u00fclt\u00fcrden k\u00fclt\u00fcre, g\u00f6rg\u00fcden inanca, bilgiden namusa bir ucundan de\u011fer. Burada bizim konumuz ise dilemek manas\u0131na daha yak\u0131n duran istemektir. \u0130ste olsunculardan, isteyenin bir y\u00fcz\u00fcc\u00fclere, doymak bilmeyenlere, hi\u00e7bir \u015fey istememi\u015flere\u2026<\/p>\n

Dua i\u00e7sel bir \u015fey de\u011fil mi diye sorsam herkes hemfikirdir, peki istemek neden bu kadar d\u0131\u015fsal alg\u0131lan\u0131r?<\/p>\n

Mutlulu\u011fu genellikle d\u0131\u015far\u0131da aramaya al\u0131\u015fk\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r. \u015eu olsun mutlu olaca\u011f\u0131m, bu da olsun mutlu olaca\u011f\u0131m hele \u015fu da olsun musmutlu olaca\u011f\u0131m. Ama bu bi\u00e7imdeki mutluluk hep eksik kal\u0131r, hi\u00e7bir zaman araya o peki\u015ftirici eki al\u0131p dolu dolu tam\u0131 tam\u0131na mutlu olunmaz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc onun eksik yan\u0131 i\u00e7eridedir. Onunla b\u00fct\u00fcnle\u015fmedi\u011fi m\u00fcddet\u00e7e pazarl\u0131k sonlanmaz.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ok sevdi\u011fim bir s\u00f6z var, o kadar \u00e7ok yerde ifade ettim ki, art\u0131k i\u00e7imde anonimle\u015fti. \u201cBilmedi\u011fi duyguyu \u00f6zleyemezmi\u015f insan.\u201d Peki bilmedi\u011fi bir \u015feyi isteyebilir mi?<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocu\u011fum i\u015fe girsin, art\u0131k kendi paras\u0131n\u0131 kazans\u0131n istiyorum. Ama onun umuru de\u011fil, gen\u00e7 i\u015fte, akl\u0131 havada\u2026 Tan\u0131d\u0131k bir serzeni\u015f de\u011fil mi? \u00c7ocuk buna ihtiya\u00e7 duyup b\u00f6yle bir \u015fey istemiyor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc para kazanmak, kendi paras\u0131n\u0131 kazanmak nedir, nas\u0131l bir duygudur, ne hissettirir? Bilmiyor ki. Sizin i\u00e7in bunun \u00f6nemi ve de\u011feri var. Ama onun i\u00e7in yok. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bunun kendi i\u00e7inde bir kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 yok, tan\u0131ms\u0131z. Neden, nas\u0131l istesin? \u00d6rne\u011fin ya\u015f\u0131 hen\u00fcz k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fckken, ona bunu deneyimlemesi i\u00e7in f\u0131rsat verdiniz mi? \u0130nsanlar olarak birbirimizle ileti\u015fime ge\u00e7meden \u00f6nce tan\u0131\u015f\u0131yoruz de\u011fil mi? \u00c7ocuk para ile temasa ge\u00e7irilmediyse ileti\u015fim kurabilir mi sizce? Kurarsa da bu nas\u0131l bir ileti\u015fim ve ili\u015fki olur?<\/p>\n

Ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim alan\u0131nda verilen baz\u0131 seminerler bolluk kavram\u0131na y\u00f6neliktir. Baz\u0131 insanlar nas\u0131l daha \u00e7ok paray\u0131 d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan avu\u00e7 i\u00e7lerine alabilirler diye \u00f6\u011frenmek \u00fczere gelir. Oysa para da d\u0131\u015far\u0131da olan bir \u015fey de\u011fildir. Bu nedenle, bu seminerlerin en ba\u015f\u0131nda \u00f6ncelikle ellerine paralar\u0131ndan birini koymalar\u0131 ve ona bak\u0131p onunla ilgili d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerini aktarmalar\u0131 istenir. Kimi yabanc\u0131 bir madde gibi bakar ona, kimi tiksinir, ok\u015far kimisi g\u00fcl\u00fcmseyerek, ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131r kenara atar k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmseyerek. Peki bir saniye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn, siz sevilmedi\u011finiz yere gitmek ister misiniz? Para neden gelsin?<\/p>\n

\u0130stemek\u2026 Hay\u0131r diyebilmekten sonra \u00f6\u011frenilmesi gereken en \u00f6nemli kavramlardan biridir, do\u011fru. Ama d\u0131\u015ftan i\u00e7e de\u011fil, i\u00e7ten d\u0131\u015fa geldi\u011fini bilmeliyiz.<\/p>\n

O halde bu \u00f6rne\u011fi genele yayal\u0131m. Belli ba\u015fl\u0131 istenen konular: Para, i\u015f, ruh e\u015fi, sevgili, arkada\u015f, ev, araba, yazl\u0131k, motor, tekne, \u00e7ocuk, evlenmek\u2026 Hi\u00e7biri d\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131zda de\u011fildir. Peki neredeler? Nereden isteyece\u011fiz? \u00dcnl\u00fc komedyen Cem Y\u0131lmaz buna en g\u00fczel cevab\u0131 verir: \u0130\u00e7imizde. Hislerinizin, isteklerinize yol, su, elektrik olmas\u0131 dile\u011fimle.<\/p>\n

\u0130stemeden \u00f6nce hissedin.<\/p>\n

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Yaz\u0131: Mine Madeno\u011flu \u00a0\u00a0 \u0130stemek\u2026 Ne kadar derinli\u011fi olan bir kelimedir. K\u00fclt\u00fcrden k\u00fclt\u00fcre, g\u00f6rg\u00fcden inanca, bilgiden namusa bir ucundan de\u011fer. Burada bizim konumuz ise dilemek manas\u0131na daha yak\u0131n duran istemektir. \u0130ste olsunculardan, isteyenin bir y\u00fcz\u00fcc\u00fclere, doymak bilmeyenlere, hi\u00e7bir \u015fey istememi\u015flere\u2026 Dua i\u00e7sel bir \u015fey de\u011fil mi diye sorsam herkes hemfikirdir,Read More →<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":248,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[26],"tags":[35,27,28],"class_list":["entry","author-dergi","post-247","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-sayi-10","tag-mine-madenoglu","tag-sayi-10","tag-yaraticilik"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/3gozdergisi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/123.jpg?fit=1260%2C1260&ssl=1","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":63,"url":"https:\/\/3gozdergisi.com\/?p=63","url_meta":{"origin":247,"position":0},"title":"Belirli bir \u015fekilde dikkati ana y\u00f6nlendirme tekni\u011fi; Mindfulness","author":"dergi","date":"4 Nisan 2017","format":false,"excerpt":"Yaz\u0131: Dr. Eda Uslu Mindfulness nedir? 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