{"id":28,"date":"2017-04-04T12:48:58","date_gmt":"2017-04-04T09:48:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/3gozdergisi.com\/blog\/?p=28"},"modified":"2017-04-04T12:48:58","modified_gmt":"2017-04-04T09:48:58","slug":"uyum","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/3gozdergisi.com\/?p=28","title":{"rendered":"Uyum"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u0130lkokul son s\u0131n\u0131ftayd\u0131m\u2026 \u00d6\u011fretmenim Medihaan\u0131m, haber yollam\u0131\u015f:<\/p>\n

\u201cAnnene s\u00f6yle, yar\u0131n okul \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f\u0131 bana gelsin\u2026 Onunla konu\u015fmak istiyorum\u2026\u201d demi\u015fti.<\/p>\n

Ne konu\u015facak!.. Hepsi pekiyi de\u011filse de karnemde hi\u00e7 zay\u0131f\u0131m yok! Bana sata\u015fmazlarsa kimseyle kavga etmiyorum\u2026 Durmadan silgim, kalemim kayboluyor\u2026 Ali\u2019den ku\u015fkulan\u0131yorum\u2026 sanki o \u00e7al\u0131yormu\u015f gibi geliyor bana, ama ona da kimseye de bir \u015fey s\u00f6ylemiyorum.<\/p>\n

Annemin eve d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fc merakla beklemi\u015f, gelir gelmez de sormu\u015ftum:<\/p>\n

\u201cBenim i\u00e7in ne s\u00f6yledi Medihaan\u0131m?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cUyumsuz bir o\u011flunuz var\u2026 dedi.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cUyumsuz!\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cEvet.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cNe yap\u0131yor mu\u015fum?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201c\u0130stiklal Mar\u015f\u0131 okunurken, a\u011fz\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131p kap\u0131yor, s\u00f6yler gibi yap\u0131yor mu\u015fsun\u2026 do\u011fru mu?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cEvet\u2026 do\u011fru.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cB\u00fct\u00fcn okul s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor\u2026 sen ni\u00e7in s\u00f6ylemiyorsun?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cEve gelirken, yolda s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorum\u2026 Tek ba\u015f\u0131ma.. \u201d<\/p>\n

\u201c\u0130\u00e7inden mi y\u00fcksek sesle mi?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cBa\u011f\u0131ra ba\u011f\u0131ra\u2026 Duyanlar durup alk\u0131\u015fl\u0131yor.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cGe\u00e7enlerde Y\u0131ld\u0131z Park\u0131\u2019na piknik yapmaya g\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u00fc\u015f \u00f6\u011fretmen han\u0131m. Hepinizi a\u011fa\u00e7lar\u0131n alt\u0131na oturtmu\u015f\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cBen havuzun kenar\u0131nda oturdum\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cTek ba\u015f\u0131na!\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cEvet, tek ba\u015f\u0131ma. K\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 bal\u0131klar\u0131 seyrettim\u2026 ne var bunda!\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cUyumsuzlu\u011fun\u2026<\/p>\n

Uyum, kelimesinin anlam\u0131n\u0131, kavram\u0131n\u0131, kapsam\u0131n\u0131 uyumsuz oldu\u011fumu annem y\u00fcz\u00fcme vurdu\u011fu g\u00fcnden bu yana biliyorum ve de b\u00f6yle geldim, b\u00f6yle gidiyorum:<\/p>\n

Lisede okudu\u011fum y\u0131llar sar\u0131 \u015feritli kasket takard\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenciler. Kasket \u015feridi k\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in ticaret okulunu se\u00e7mi\u015ftim.<\/p>\n

D\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcnler evini ziyarete gidece\u011fiz\u2026 yirmi arkada\u015f. \u0130\u00e7imizden biri:<\/p>\n

\u201cBen hepimiz i\u00e7in yar\u0131m\u015far kilo baklava al\u0131p geliyorum\u2026\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n

\u201cBenimki \u015f\u00f6biyet olsun\u2026\u201d diye seslendim pe\u015finden.<\/p>\n

Torun torbay\u0131 toplad\u0131m\u2026 \u00fcnl\u00fc bir kebap\u00e7\u0131 var\u2026 oraya g\u00f6t\u00fcrd\u00fcm. Bizim han\u0131m:<\/p>\n

\u201cHerkese birer kar\u0131\u015f\u0131k s\u00f6yleyelim, her kebaptan tatm\u0131\u015f olal\u0131m\u2026\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n

\u201cBen, \u015fi\u015f yiyece\u011fim\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n

Annem ba\u015fta, h\u0131s\u0131m akraba, ya\u015f\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131ma, kafas\u0131 kafama uygun k\u0131z bakt\u0131klar\u0131 g\u00fcnler. Hepsi etlice butluca, \u00fcstelik hepsi de sar\u0131\u015f\u0131n.<\/p>\n

\u201cEsmer yok mu?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cVar bir tane\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cTamam.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cG\u00fczel mi?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cG\u00fczelli\u011fine g\u00fczel de biraz s\u0131skaca \u2026\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cOlsun.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cYemekten de anlam\u0131yormu\u015f.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cAnlamas\u0131n. \u00d6\u011frenir.\u201d<\/p>\n

Ev tuttuk. Boyas\u0131, badanas\u0131 bitince oturaca\u011f\u0131z. Nik\u00e2h\u0131 bekletiyoruz:<\/p>\n

\u201cGel bak bakal\u0131m\u2026 Be\u011fenecek misin?\u201d<\/p>\n

Kap\u0131dan girdik\u2026 Parkeler cilal\u0131\u2026 Duvarlar bembeyaz\u2026 Mutfa\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnce \u015fa\u015f\u0131rd\u0131:<\/p>\n

\u201cBuras\u0131 b\u00f6yle mi kalacak?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cEvet\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cK\u0131pk\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131!..\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cEvet\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cKim istedi bu rengi!\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cBen istedim\u2026 olmam\u0131\u015f m\u0131?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cOlmu\u015f\u2026 ama, uyumsuz olmu\u015f.\u201d<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Yaz\u0131: Vural S\u00f6zer<\/p>\n

vural.sozer@hotmail.com<\/a><\/p>\n

www.vuralsozer.com.tr<\/a><\/p>\n

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