{"id":746,"date":"2018-02-21T15:50:20","date_gmt":"2018-02-21T13:50:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/3gozdergisi.com\/?p=746"},"modified":"2018-02-21T16:52:28","modified_gmt":"2018-02-21T14:52:28","slug":"746","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/3gozdergisi.com\/?p=746","title":{"rendered":"“Kendimi seviyor ve onayl\u0131yorum.” Ger\u00e7ekten mi?"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cKendimi seviyor ve onayl\u0131yorum.\u201d Ne \u00e7ok duyar olduk bu ve benzeri olumlama c\u00fcmlelerini. Ard\u0131na mucize beklentilerimizi ekledik, s\u0131rt\u0131na da ben bunu hak ediyorum a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131.\u2026 Peki ne oldu? Sevdik mi ger\u00e7ekten kendimizi? Ya da onaylayabildik mi en utan\u00e7 verici buldu\u011fumuz y\u00f6nlerimizi ya da bize ait oldu\u011funu bile kabul etmedi\u011fimiz,edemedi\u011fimiz y\u00f6nlerimizi?<\/p>\n

\u201cBen bu c\u00fcmle ile hayat\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftiren kimseyi tan\u0131m\u0131yorum\u201d diyor yazar\u0131m\u0131z M\u00fcge \u00c7evik. \u201c En az\u0131ndan sadece bu olumlamay\u0131 kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in kendini daha \u00e7ok seven ve onaylayan kimseyi\u2026 tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan bahsediyor. \u201cPeki, \u00a0ne olunca insan kendini sevmi\u015f ve onaylam\u0131\u015f oluyor? Nedir bunun kriteri? Ne oluyor da biri i\u00e7in kendini seviyor diyebiliyoruz?\u201d diyerek \u015fu sorulara cevap ar\u0131yor:<\/p>\n

“Peki \u201ckendim\u201d kimim ki bunu sevip sevmedi\u011fimi anlayay\u0131m?<\/p>\n

“Peki bu kadar katmanl\u0131 ve \u00e7ok par\u00e7al\u0131 bir \u015feyi bilmek, tan\u0131mak kolay m\u0131 ki, onaylamak ve hatta sevmek kolay olsun?<\/p>\n

Yaz\u0131n\u0131n devam\u0131na linkten t\u0131klayarak ilgili sayfadan ula\u015fabilirsiniz.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

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\u201cKendimi seviyor ve onayl\u0131yorum.\u201d Ne \u00e7ok duyar olduk bu ve benzeri olumlama c\u00fcmlelerini. Ard\u0131na mucize beklentilerimizi ekledik, s\u0131rt\u0131na da ben bunu hak ediyorum a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131.\u2026 Peki ne oldu? Sevdik mi ger\u00e7ekten kendimizi? Ya da onaylayabildik mi en utan\u00e7 verici buldu\u011fumuz y\u00f6nlerimizi ya da bize ait oldu\u011funu bile kabul etmedi\u011fimiz,edemedi\u011fimiz y\u00f6nlerimizi? \u201cBenRead More →<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":762,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[278,272,96,70,273,274,275,23,276,277,142,189,217,279],"class_list":["entry","author-gulerpinarbasi","post-746","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-genel","tag-278","tag-cevaplar","tag-dergi","tag-farkindalik","tag-kalem","tag-kendimi-onayliyorum-ve-seviyorum","tag-kendimi-sevmek","tag-muge-cevik","tag-onaylamak","tag-sayfa","tag-sevgi","tag-sorular","tag-ucuncu-goz","tag-yolculuk"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/3gozdergisi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/pexels-photo-277013.jpg?fit=1800%2C1618&ssl=1","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":2418,"url":"https:\/\/3gozdergisi.com\/?p=2418","url_meta":{"origin":746,"position":0},"title":"Duygular\u0131m\u0131z ve Duygusal Beslenme","author":"editor net","date":"10 Mart 2021","format":false,"excerpt":"2020 y\u0131l\u0131n\u0131n mart ay\u0131nda, hayat\u0131m\u0131za pandeminin girmesiyle ne zaman bitece\u011fi belli olmayan belirsiz bir d\u00f6nemin i\u00e7ine girdik. 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