{"id":908,"date":"2019-05-06T16:53:29","date_gmt":"2019-05-06T13:53:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/3gozdergisi.com\/?p=908"},"modified":"2019-05-06T17:05:16","modified_gmt":"2019-05-06T14:05:16","slug":"bir-korkuyu-yenme-calismasi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/3gozdergisi.com\/?p=908","title":{"rendered":"Bir korkuyu yenme \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131…"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Bir cumartesi ak\u015fam\u0131yd\u0131. Anadolu yakas\u0131nda bir arkada\u015f\u0131ma davetliydim o da hadi evde yemeyelim dedi ve bir \u00e7\u0131nar\u0131n alt\u0131na kurulmu\u015f, sala\u015f bir yere yeme\u011fe g\u00f6t\u00fcrd\u00fc. Keyifler yerinde, afiyetle yemek yerken, bir fare g\u00f6rd\u00fcm.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

– “Ahah! G\u00f6z\u00fcme mi?” derken biri, biri, birileri daha benim gibi onu g\u00f6rd\u00fc ve benim i\u00e7imden att\u0131\u011f\u0131m -”yiiiiaaaaaaowwww” sesi \u00a0bir anda koroya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc.<\/div>\n
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Sanki bana bir g\u00fc\u00e7 geldi. Farecik ise \u00fczerimize do\u011fru gelmekte!..<\/div>\n
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Neredeyse ben dahil herkes sandalye tepesine \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131! Biz fareden korkuyoruz ama farecik bizden beter. D\u00f6rt bir yana do\u011fru gidiyor. Hani \u015f\u00f6yle ki, belki beni bu karma\u015fadan bu kurtar\u0131r diye bir umut\u00a0belseyerek bana bile geldi.<\/div>\n
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Sonra, ben; “Aman \u00f6ld\u00fcrmeyin, d\u0131\u015far\u0131 at\u0131n” desem de c\u0131l\u0131z bir sesle, di\u011fer m\u00fc\u015fteriler korktu\u011fundan ve yemek i\u00e7in gidilen yerde bir fare oldu\u011fundan dolay\u0131 suratlar de\u011fi\u015fmeye ba\u015flad\u0131. Benim c\u0131l\u0131z sesime bir ka\u00e7 ki\u015fi daha;<\/div>\n
-“\u00d6ld\u00fcrmeyin aman d\u0131\u015far\u0131 at\u0131n nazik\u00e7e” deyince benim sesim daha bir g\u00fc\u00e7lendi. Tam o s\u0131rada di\u011fer masadan bir ses geldi:<\/div>\n
-“O fare de\u011fil bir Hamster”…<\/div>\n
– “Hamster m\u0131?”<\/div>\n
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Ara\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131m tabii sonra. Hamsterlar \u00f6nce fare\u00a0gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnse de de\u011fillermi\u015f.\u00a0Ama \u015fa\u015f\u0131rt\u0131c\u0131 \u015fekilde benziyorlar.\u00a0\u0130lgin\u00e7 olan \u015fu ki; Hamsterlar sevimli hayvanlar s\u0131n\u0131f\u0131na girse de fareler \u00f6yle de\u011filler.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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Bunu duyan, korkan ve ayaklar\u0131n\u0131 ge\u00e7i\u015f alan\u0131ndan ka\u00e7\u0131rmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan herkes g\u00fclmeye ba\u015flad\u0131. Birden ortadaki korku enerjisi sevgiye d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc. “Buraya nas\u0131l fare gelir?” d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesi; “\u015ea\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r, yolunu kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131rm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r, ne yaps\u0131n ki? Ya\u015fayacak alan m\u0131 b\u0131rakt\u0131k …” vb. ya\u015fam felsefesine kadar gitti an\u0131nda.<\/div>\n
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Ve sonunda ortal\u0131kta onu yakalamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan garsonlar fareci\u011fi tuttular, \u00a0kibarca bah\u00e7eye sald\u0131lar. Bu yolunu \u015fa\u015f\u0131rm\u0131\u015f fareci\u011fe ‘misafir’ muamelesi yap\u0131ld\u0131 neredeyse…<\/div>\n
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Ve akl\u0131ma \u015fu soru geldi; hepi topu ser\u00e7e kadar olan bu farede neden ser\u00e7e sevimlili\u011fini bulam\u0131yor \u015fu insanlar? Ben fare korkumu bu benzetme ile yenmi\u015ftim de. Bu yenmi\u015f halimdi.<\/div>\n
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Ne zaman bilmedi\u011fim\u00a0 bir konu da korkum geli\u015fse, hemen bilgi sahibi olur ve o korkuyu yenerim. Tavsiye ederim. Sevgiler,<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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G\u00fcler P\u0131narba\u015f\u0131<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Bir cumartesi ak\u015fam\u0131yd\u0131. Anadolu yakas\u0131nda bir arkada\u015f\u0131ma davetliydim o da hadi evde yemeyelim dedi ve bir \u00e7\u0131nar\u0131n alt\u0131na kurulmu\u015f, sala\u015f bir yere yeme\u011fe g\u00f6t\u00fcrd\u00fc. Keyifler yerinde, afiyetle yemek yerken, bir fare g\u00f6rd\u00fcm. – “Ahah! G\u00f6z\u00fcme mi?” derken biri, biri, birileri daha benim gibi onu g\u00f6rd\u00fc ve benim i\u00e7imden att\u0131\u011f\u0131m -”yiiiiaaaaaaowwww”Read More →<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":913,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[434,70,433,435,142],"class_list":["entry","author-gulerpinarbasi","post-908","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-genel","tag-fare","tag-farkindalik","tag-hamster","tag-misafir","tag-sevgi"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/3gozdergisi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/hamster-1.jpg?fit=800%2C592&ssl=1","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":581,"url":"https:\/\/3gozdergisi.com\/?p=581","url_meta":{"origin":908,"position":0},"title":"\u0130leti\u015fim kazalar\u0131nda kay\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z bo\u015f mu, dolu mu?","author":"g\u00fcler p\u0131narba\u015f\u0131","date":"26 Ocak 2018","format":false,"excerpt":"Ge\u00e7en g\u00fcnlerden bir g\u00fcn bir ileti\u015fim kazas\u0131 ya\u015fad\u0131k. 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